proudnb<p>You have immense strength and bravery to maintain a sense of pride in being nonbinary.</p><p>It's not easy in a bigoted world and because of that you have far more power than your oppressors.</p><p><a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryPositivity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryPositivity</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryPride" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryPride</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinary" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinary</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/bigotry" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>bigotry</span></a></p>
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proudnb<p>It's alright to miss some of what you were before coming out and/or transitioning into your nonbinary self.</p><p>But, you can bring some version of your past back into your current self if you like. It's not necessarily gone. It just needs to adapt.</p><p><a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryPositivity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryPositivity</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryPride" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryPride</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinary" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinary</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/comingout" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>comingout</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/transitioning" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>transitioning</span></a></p>
proudnb<p>Finding a "reason" for why you're nonbinary is only going to be as productive as finding the reason that cis people exist. They are interesting questions, but any answers are unlikely to impact your life right now.</p><p>Save the "whys" for a safer world. What's important now is keeping you alive and well.</p><p><a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinary" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinary</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryPositivity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryPositivity</span></a></p>
proudnb<p>There is always some sort of high stakes argument about nonbinary people making the rounds on the internet.</p><p>While it is tempting to get involved because it's often about your right to exist as a nonbinary individual, it's best to let it go.</p><p>You will outlive that particular nonsense.</p><p><a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryPositivity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryPositivity</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryPride" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryPride</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinary" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinary</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/bigotry" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>bigotry</span></a></p>
proudnb<p>One of the healthiest things you can do for yourself as a nonbinary person is to stop entertaining the ideas of bigots.</p><p>Those who publicly hate nonbinary people may be after fame, money, power, social media attention, and more. In some way they thrive from the hatred that they kindle.</p><p>Stop giving them the fuel that is your attention. Take care of yourself instead.</p><p><a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryPositivity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryPositivity</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryPride" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryPride</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinary" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinary</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/bigotry" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>bigotry</span></a></p>
proudnb<p>If you are able and willing to be openly nonbinary, then now is the time.</p><p>Hateful people are trying to erase nonbinary and transgender people in every imaginable way.</p><p>Make their attempts impossible.</p><p><a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryPride" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryPride</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinary" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinary</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryPositivity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryPositivity</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/trans" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>trans</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/bigotry" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>bigotry</span></a></p>
proudnb<p>Nonbinary people are all valuable.</p><p>Some people like to favor certain kinds of nonbinary people over others, but their reasons for doing so are always bad.</p><p>Bigoted hierarchies are based on falsehoods. The truth is that every nonbinary person is unique and vital to their communities.</p><p><a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryPositivity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryPositivity</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinary" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinary</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/bigotry" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>bigotry</span></a></p>
proudnb<p>Respect elderly nonbinary people.</p><p>You have been erased and ignored by those in the community and by those outside it. But you are acknowledged here.</p><p>Respect our nonbinary elders.</p><p><a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryPositivity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryPositivity</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryPride" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryPride</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinary" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinary</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/ageism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ageism</span></a></p>
proudnb<p>Being nonbinary can be very, very hard at times.</p><p>But to remember that having the courage to face who you are and live with that is extraordinary.</p><p>Even in the face of so much hatred and so many lies, we continue on. We stay true to ourselves. We have to. </p><p>That strength is more than admirable, it's amazing.</p><p><a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryPositivity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryPositivity</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryPride" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryPride</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinary" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinary</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/bigotry" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>bigotry</span></a></p>
proudnb<p>Nonbinary people embody humanity in every sense of the word.</p><p>Our bodies are neither derivatives of a binary ideal nor betrayals of an inescapable nature. We exist fully, in the flesh, as nonbinary human beings.</p><p>We bleed, grow, breathe, sweat, and change in our own myriad of ways.</p><p><a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryPositivity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryPositivity</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryPride" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryPride</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinary" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinary</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/appearance" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>appearance</span></a></p>
proudnb<p>Sometimes coming out as nonbinary means truly starting from scratch.</p><p>Your past may seem like a void as a result. Where others have childhood friends, extended family, or a hometown, you have a secret.</p><p>But your past is full of texture. Your story might be different, but it's still a story as real as any.</p><p>In fact, it's as real as it gets.</p><p><a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryPositivity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryPositivity</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryPride" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryPride</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinary" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinary</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/ComingOut" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ComingOut</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/bigotry" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>bigotry</span></a></p>
proudnb<p>In many places, it's a dangerous and exhausting time for nonbinary people.</p><p>You might want to work to change it, which is good. However, you can just focus on surviving, too.</p><p>Having you alive is enough.</p><p><a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryPositivity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryPositivity</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryPride" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryPride</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinary" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinary</span></a></p>
proudnb<p>It's okay to be single even though you'd rather not be.</p><p>Dating is hard for everyone, but it can be a bit of a minefield for nonbinary people. You could be looking, taking a break, just too busy right now, or any number of reasons.</p><p>There's nothing wrong with you, and this won't last forever. You'll find someone in time.</p><p><a href="https://todon.nl/tags/single" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>single</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/relationships" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>relationships</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinary" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinary</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryPositivity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryPositivity</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/dating" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>dating</span></a></p>
proudnb<p>Transitioning can be more than moving from one end of a binary to the other. </p><p>There are all sorts of ways that nonbinary people transition. Some journeys are essentially the same as binary women and men. Others take a winding path that includes some changes and not others. Still more will go through cycles of change.</p><p>There are as many ways to go through a nonbinary transition as there are nonbinary people, and all are real options.</p><p><a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryPositivity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryPositivity</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryPride" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryPride</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinary" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinary</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/transitioning" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>transitioning</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/GenderAffirmingCare" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>GenderAffirmingCare</span></a></p>
proudnb<p>Your wellbeing as a nonbinary person is a greater priority than any "belief."</p><p>You're not a curse, sin, accident, problem, or even in the way.</p><p>Your life will always be more important than an idea.</p><p><a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryPositivity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryPositivity</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryPride" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryPride</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinary" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinary</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/exorsexism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>exorsexism</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/bigotry" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>bigotry</span></a></p>
proudnb<p>It's alright if you sometimes have to make concessions in regards to pronouns, words, and titles in order deal with life. You're not "giving up," and being addressed properly is still important. </p><p>But sometimes people mean well despite mistakes. A person can address you flawlessly and still be bigoted. A set of pronouns in one language may not translate to another.</p><p>It's more important to survive than to die striving for perfection.</p><p><a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryPositivity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryPositivity</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/pronouns" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>pronouns</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinary" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinary</span></a></p>
proudnb<p>Every day genderqueer, trans, and nonbinary people make the world a bit brighter and more complex.</p><p>Each of you shine like a galaxy in the deep, dark beauty of space.</p><p><a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryPositivity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryPositivity</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/TransPositivity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>TransPositivity</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/GenderQueerPositivity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>GenderQueerPositivity</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/spac" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>spac</span></a></p>
proudnb<p>Not all nonbinary spaces are created equal, which is true for all spaces.</p><p>It's alright if you don't fit in sometimes. There are other places and other people that will fit you better.</p><p><a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryPositivity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryPositivity</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryPride" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryPride</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinary" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinary</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryCommunity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryCommunity</span></a></p>
proudnb<p>"Femininity" and "masculinity" change so much across time and place that every rule has been broken and rewritten before.</p><p>The only way to learn how to incorporate such things into yourself as a nonbinary person is to look inside.</p><p>Ask yourself what you need.</p><p><a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryPositivity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryPositivity</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryPride" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryPride</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinary" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinary</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/masculinity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>masculinity</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/femininity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>femininity</span></a></p>
proudnb<p>Nonbinary atheists are important. </p><p>Your experiences with religion are relevant, deserve respect, and time in discussion.</p><p><a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryPositivity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryPositivity</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinary" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinary</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/atheism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>atheism</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/religion" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>religion</span></a></p>
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