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I've realised I've got a bigender pride flag, and a trans pride flag, but I don't have a grey aroace one - and I can't find one to buy anywhere :ablobcatraindepressed:

The one I use seems to be very uncommon, which isn't helping, but nowhere seems to sell any grey aroace flags.. is making a custom flag a thing that can be done? I'd also love an enamel pin at some point too, can you get custom enamel pins?

Given September is my og coming out month, I looked through various profile pictures on the zuck app to give myself a transition highlights reel of sorts. I'm only able to upload a limited amount of photos at a time, so I'll have to make a thread to be able to post them all, but unfortunately for us all - I've basically not changed at all. T has had minimal effects, and I haven't aged much, so it's a series of boring photos, I'm afraid!

So far, I've grown a few centimetres
My voice has broken (not obvious in photos, tho, of course)
I've gained weight
I'm hairier (no beard yet tho!)
My hairline has slightly receded
Bottom growth (again, not visible in photos - well, not visible in SFW photos 👀)

I now realise why people ask if I've started t yet 😂

So photos 1-3. The rest are in the replies

2015 - not out yet
2016 - a month before I come out
2017 - the year I realised I was grey ace alongside being gay

I genuinely really love being single and have no plans to give that up any time soon, if ever. It would take a lot, and a very special person, to make me consider some type of non platonic/not exclusively platonic relationship. Honestly, I'm so happy with where I'm at on that front, and it's one of the only things I have going for me.

More representation of people whose lives aren't centred around romance, sex, or romantic and/or sexual relationships, please

So I'm struggling to find my original introduction, which is probably out of date now anyway - it's been suggested having an introduction pinned to your profile can help people find you. So here's mine!

I fluctuate between using the terms 'bigender' and 'bigender man', I'm trans, grey aroace, gay, and don't use pronouns. I live in Newcastle, UK, and work as a part time carer and a casual Stadium Tour Guide for Newcastle United at St James' Park. I also have a couple of chronic health issues as well.

I'm a big football, film, and sitcom fan. I support Manchester United and Leeds United. I also fancy Derren Brown and David Hyde Pierce a fair bit, which you'll probably hear about!

I also make sure I add alt text to posts!