So my soon to be ex wife wants to leave me, but she doesn’t want to change anything because she’s afraid of the change and doesn’t earn enough money to have a house of her own. So basically she wants to keep living together(=me paying >75%) but she no longer loves me so she’s allowed to date/sleep with whoever she wants. How do you respond to that?


I went with: I can’t find myself in that arrangement so I think we should come up with another option. Let’s take a break talking about this for a couple of days and think about what we both want out of this.
Since we have a prenup and guaranteed 50/50 custody of the kids, that seemed to be the best reply for everyone…

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