You’re in #order when you have a loyal friend, a trustworthy ally. When the same person betrays you, sells you out, you move from the daytime world of clarity and light to the dark underworld of #chaos, confusion and despair.
This is the same move you make, the same place you visit, when your company starts to fail and your job is placed in doubt.
In my personal experiences, worldview, and understanding, at least.
Divorce, I think, is "actively (or intentionally) rescinding a given promise". A promise is supposed to hold, and to keep up. If you are a loyal partner, and they suddenly go void on you, you are in trouble because "It is not good for man to be alone".
The promise of marriage is the most intimate promise that a human would give. If this is nulled/cancelled unexpectedly, and you can not prepare, it will break your trust at a deep level; stunt your very ability to trust. Such a betrayal impacts the capacity to open up to an other then, and relate and bond.
And the need for intimacy is still there. Where should a loyal yet wrongfully betrayed person go now to have intimacy also on the sexual level?
The partner once promised to give himself to her, but he now suddenly vanished. (Or she once promised [..], but she now suddenly vanished)
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