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Schedule time for yourself. Put it on your calendar.

The problem with your code is that it's doing exactly what you told it to do.


@tindall I think you're entirely correct. One thing I still have to overcome is a habit I carried over from corporate social media: my first instinct is to block a person because I've been conditioned to think "reporting won't do anything". I know that's not the case here, but it's like muscle memory for me and I don't think I've made enough progress in overcoming it. I owe it to the people who are more vulnerable than myself to try harder at that.

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A helpful strip to point people to if they express frustration at having to use "they/them" pronouns in conversation:

I guess blackfolx can't have anime avatars. I'll change shit up later.

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I am certain I've been Mistaken for White 3 hours ago and it bugs the shit out of me

Reminder: if I don't know what to say, I should probably just not say it.

Again, either you are about creating a safe space or you're not.

If you're making space for bigots, racists and homophobes to feel comfortable in your space, you're making a choice.

You can't have it both ways.

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I don't know what it is about the fragility of white dudes that I find so hilarious, but I do.

The really believe that repeating the same bullshit over and over again is a "debate" and their random, unleavened opinions of what I say at the moment is the context I should just accept. LOL, as if I'm not a whole ass person.

The paradox of them repeating that they JUST WANT TO TALK, while simultaneously throwing out my own context in favor of theirs is just... comedy to me.

As if we don't see it.

*someone drops something in this Denny’s*
Me, quietly: let the dishes hit the floor, let the dishes hit the floor

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