food Show more
Homemade kimchi soup and Korean dumplings.
In the twenty-first century censorship works by flooding people with irrelevant information. We just don't know what to pay attention to, and often spend our time investigating and debating side issues. In ancient times having power meant having access to data. Today having power means knowing what to ignore.
~ Yuval Noah Harari
family/polyamory Show more
Told my Mom today that my wife and I decided to have an open/polyam relationship. She took it pretty well. Asked a bunch of questions and was happy when I said I’d send her a book to read on what polyamory is all about. She definitely wants to be supportive of our decision, but it’s a lot for her very-Catholic brain to process.
the feels Show more
I honestly had no idea how my “shutdown” had impacted her. I’m sure she’s said things to me about it, but for whatever reason it’s only now resonating.
the feels Show more
In the last couple of weeks I’ve realized just how emotionally unavailable I’ve been for the last couple years. Today I was talking to my wife about it and she told me that it started back a lot further back than I realized. I want to shut down emotionally (because that’s how I roll), but I’m making myself feel the discomfort and it sucks.
online dating protip Show more
If someone uses a word in their dating profile you don’t know like say...polyamarous in their profile, google it BEFORE starting a conversation with them. It will be less awkward for everyone.
Looking for friends on Mastodon Show more
I am a relative newcomer, and still looking for friends and connections. Maybe this will help? 5 topics I'm interested in beyond the typical retro gameing stuff I post:
Also, I guess, the experience of getting older as an ace/queer/trans nerd.
MBA, philosopher, classical liberal, science and sci-fi geek
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